Sunday, June 10, 2007


There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.

I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay. Let them go. And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over.

And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead.You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know if it is meant for me to have, I’ll have it. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to...LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ...LET IT GO!!!

-If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth...LET IT GO!!!

-If someone has angered you ... LET IT GO!!!

-If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge... LET IT GO!!!

-If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction ... LET IT GO!!!

-If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents ... LET IT GO!!!

-If you have a bad attitude...LET IT GO!!!

-If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better... LET IT GO!!!

-If you're stuck in the past...LET IT GO!!!
-If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship.... LET IT GO!!!

-If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves...LET IT GO!!!

-If you're feeling depressed and stressed.... LET IT GO!!!

-Let the past be the past.

Forget the former things.


1 comment:

honeybhing23 said...



"You do need to vent it somehow--you shouldn't keep it bottled in, but these are things that are unhealthy and you need to find ways to not feel them.

If you are religious I would suggest prayer. This will help when you understand how God feels about anger and hatred. The worst thing about hatred and anger is that they are far more destructive to us than they are to other people". Warren D

strenuous exercise like running or biking works wonders. dancing is a great outlet too, especially salsa.

yoga is a good choice to keep anger from building up in the first place.

and finally daily meditation to focus your mind works wonder in keeping a balanced mind". Vjaxxon

Try this exercise (by yourself, when you're feeling calm):
Remember a time when someone or something made you angry, and you reacted hastily; a time when you regretted the way you acted.

Think about that situation as though you are watching yourself, and how you would like to see yourself react. Then play out that situation in your mind (as though you are there, in the situation, not just watching this time), and respond in that way. Think about whether you are satisfied that that situation could be resolved without you losing your temper.

I have resolved issues with anger management using this method; it is frustrating at first but ultimately successful. The key is being able to see yourself the way others see you, and understand how they felt, especially if they were getting frustrated with the way you acted towards them.

If your anger is causing serious issues in your life, consider seeking counseling in order to more quickly identify the source of your problem and minimise its impact on your life. " 876

"Let go.

Hatred & anger hurt you more than the focus of your hatred or anger.

You just let go. You don't let it get to you. You choose to be calm. You choose to take a deep breath. You choose to let things roll of your back. It can be difficult but it can be done. It's like loosening a tight knot in your stomach. In fact, visualize your anger that way. Then imagine yourself loosening the knot, letting it go. You may actually feel anger in your stomach. Take a deep breath. With each exhalation, imagine letting the anger go. Get it out of you.

It's just not worth it. Don't let things get to you. You can train yourself to calm down & stop getting angry. It just takes practice & dedication". Amp


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